How To Ask Sugar Daddy For Money

How To Tell A Sugar Daddy What You Want: How To Ask Him For Money

Last updated: October 15, 2021

Daddy, I need money! It's not always easy to say something like that to your benefactor, especially if you are not an experienced sugar baby. However, every SB should feel comfortable when asking for pay per meet or a monthly allowance—after all, this is what sugar dating is about. In this guide, we'll tell you how to ask sugar daddy for money and not feel bad about it.

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How to tell a sugar daddy what you want?

Talking about money is not an optional part—it's just necessary because you never know how much a sugar daddy is going to pay, what type of payment he'd prefer, and, after all, if he is a sugar daddy or a Splenda or much worse, a Salt daddy.

Splenda daddies are men who want to date a sugar baby but can't afford to pay as much as sugar daddies usually pay. Salt daddies, in turn, are men who aren't going to pay a cent—their main goal is to make a sugar baby meet them, sleep with them—after that, they just fade away.

Even experienced sugar babies note that they always bring up the subject before meet-and-greet. First and foremost, you need to realize that mentioning an allowance is like asking a seller about the costs in a local store—that's perfectly normal, you have the right to do it, and you can't meet your main goal without doing it. There is nothing awkward or wrong about that.

How to ask your sugar daddy for money or an allowance?

So, how to ask sugar daddy for allowance? Here are some most useful tips.

Get a bit closer first. Don't start your conversation with "Hi, I want to get paid $500, pay per meet". That's just impolite. Have a small talk, find out if you may be good matches for each other. Yes, that takes time, but it's necessary.
Then remind yourself that you have the right to discuss financial conditions.
Ask him what he expects from a relationship—there is a chance that he will mention how much he is going to pay. Moreover, he can mention intimacy—note that you have the right to wait until you are ready, sugar dating is not sex work, so if this is the only thing he wants, you should better look for another SD.
Be direct, honest, and polite at the same time. Show him that you respect yourself and you respect him—don't write anything like "Hey, I want 500 bucks, no more or less than that". Good manners are one of the things that make an SB popular.

Final thoughts

Now you know how to ask your sugar daddy for money or an allowance. As you can see, it's not that hard. Moreover, you'll get used to it—otherwise, you'll hardly be able to be a popular and therefore, wealthy sugar baby.